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The reunion mania continues! Tonight, Real Housewives of Atlanta‘s reunion drops, and from the preview videos, it looks like Andy actually asked interesting questions.
In the following clip, he calls Kim Zolciak out on her relationship with married boyfriend Big Poppa and how it’s unfair to the children he has with his wife that Poppa apparently spends a ton of time with Kim’s girls. Kim says her daughters know that Big Poppa is married but doesn’t seem to care, or understand how it may be affecting them. She just says she’s “not perfect.” She does bring up one interesting point: that Poppa, despite being married, has been a consistent father figure in the girl’s lives for over 3 years.
Qui’mm (kim) is a pathological liar who gets caught up in her lies on an everyday basis
I think that CPS need to step in and investigate Kim stating that she, her girls and big papa sleep in the same bed. They investigated Michael Jackson letting lil boys sleep in his bed, so someone needs to speak to those kids to get to the bottom of this crazy insane relationship he has with her kids. Kim says she has a nanny and assistant, so why in big papa doing things that would be the job of a nanny. PLEAS, PLEASE, PLEASE, CPS if you are watching his show, she need to be invesigated as a mother. Kim also said she would stop smoking for her kids, They begged her to stop smoking due to second hand smoke, and Kim just won’t stop. Kim does not even value her daughters concerns, she is in it just for herself.
Problem with Kim is that every time she looks in the mirror she only sees the outter part of herself. Damn I look great and so on. She needs to look deeper at herself, past the blonde wig,and see what she really looks like to the rest of us. She is so self obsorbed, heck most of them are. She needs to find respect for herself so one day she can hold her head up and look in the mirror and be proud of her innerself. Thats what her girls need to see from her.
Vonda, not sure if you have ever heard of Joyce Meyer. She was abused by her father when she was a child and her mother knew about it also. She has moved on to Minister around the world. Her story of forgiveness for he dad is amasing. God does work out what has been bad for good. Her saying is He gives us double for our trouble. She offers resorces on Gods ways. Hope you can find a way to get past what you have gone through. God Bless.
Hey Maria, you are absolutely right. She was actually on her way to court because the guy that helped her produce the stupid ass song was sueing her, but they worked it out before the court date..she talked about it on tv. I can safetly assume that Big Papa came to the rescue and came up with the money. Kandi’s part in it may have been free…she’s a fool as well, for putting her name on that bullshit…that Heffa cant sing a lick..yes Kim, that Heffa would be you.
There has been a long, long tradition since recorded history of kept women, courtesans, mistresses, what have you. What Kim is doing is nothing knew. The difference, it seems, is that the famous courtesans in history were intelligent, powerful women, not the empty-headed cheap whores that Kim seems to be. The women you read about in history that did the same thing had some class, education, etc., but Kim is just ignorant trash through and through. I can’t decide who on the show is more negative and toxic, her or Nene (who can’t function without putting down and trashing other people at *every* turn). I just hope that Kandi, that only one with any talent, class, or decency has the good sense that DeShawn did and not stay away for the inevitable next season.
As I was watching the reunion last night – I started to wonder if Big Poppa paid Kandi to produce Kims song. From Teen Cribs, we all know that BP’s son is friends with Dallas Austin, and that BP has a recording studio in his house. Based on that – I’ve got to assume that BP and Kandi knew each other before RHoA – seriously, the music scene in Atlanta isn’t that big.
But at the reunion last night – when Andy was asking the other Housewives if they’ve met Big Poppa. And then Andy questions Kandi about the relationship – and when Kandi answered “Well I’ve never really asked him, but he appears to love Kim.” That asnwer struck me as a bit odd. You wouldn’t ask someone you just met casually about his intentions to a gal you recently. But if Kandi is even thinking about asking that question – it seems to me that she knows Big Poppa. Which would explain why she decided to produce Tardy for the Party.
Just my 2 cents. . .
did anyone else notice tonight how Kim was ALL
next, moving on…, were past that,…,
MOVEING ON ANDY!!!
okaaaaayy. lol
she is a DUMBASS basically!! she sounds dumb…looks dumb…hell she is just plain DUMB!!! lol…but thats is a shame u can’t teach ur girls to not just demand respect from a man BUT let alone RESPECT THEMSELVES!!! because kim sure doesn’t respect anything abotu herself…she has 2 small girls at that n she walks around on national television bragging about a married man she is sleeping with!! I mean come on your a HOMEWRECKER and u think its cute…do u honestly believe he would marry u n be faithful??!!?? most likely not, because ur in it for the money so as long as ur getting some money from the situation u could careless!!! but remember money is temporary…here today gone tomorrow!!! just look @ the recession we r in…plenty of ppl can tell u that story n how they found that out the hard way. But all in all I just pray those 2 little girls watch someone else who can be a much better role model and follow their footsteps because lord knows if they follow hers they will end up nowhere in life but a busted trashy bitch with a wig!! lol…funny but TRUE!!!
As I watch this reunion, the thing that blows my mind is that Kim said that “for the first year” with Poppa, he was not supporting her like a “HOOKER”! Wow-so what does that make her NOW? I am (almost) speechless!
“Late”, that snuggling stuff is really scary and inappropriate. My stepfather sexually abused me and my mother knew about it and did nothing to help me-she chose him over me and I’m still dealing with that. When my half-sister was born, I was so afraid for her but, since she was his “blood”, he didn’t do anything to her. To this day, I will not be alone with this man! Perhaps that makes me a bit paranoid, but, if I had children, there is NO way I would allow them to stay in that kind of situation.
When Kim was talking about her finances, she failed to mention that her ex is the son of a billionaire and he pays her $250K a year PLUS $30K a month in child support! The only “skill” she seems to have is finding a rich man to pay her way! She must have excelled in “Gold digger 101″!
Jae, I agree. I won’t give up another hour of my life to support a show that makes being a harlot/mistress/HOMEWRECKER acceptable–much less profitable! The ONLY “Real” person on the show, housewife or not, is Kandi! I won’t watch her on the show, but I will definitely follow her music career and other endeavors. She is a Beautiful, Intelligent, Talented, Confident, Hard-working woman (sometimes referred to as a BITCH) and she’s the only role model that young women should be watching.
Like Kat said, Kim is a horrible example-she is an absolute embarassment to the female gender! Her actions and attitude are examples of the things strong women throughout history fought really hard to overcome. She’s dumb as a sack of hair (or, in her case, WIGS)! HELL TO THE YEAH!
As much as I love NeNe, Lisa and Sheree….I cant give another season to this show, because the fact that Bravo allows Kim and her ridiculous morals leaves a really bad taste in my mouth. Kim is a horrible person and trust and believe, God will deal with her. She’s not a housewife so she needs to go. She’s as dumb as a box of rocks if she cant see how stupid she looks to the world…wake up Fool!..That would be you Kim
I hope I am mistaken but didn’t Kim state that Big Papa the girls and herself all smuggle and sleep in the bed together when he is there. And isn’t her oldest daughter about 12 or 13 now. Well if that is true where is their father because I think she should be concerned about losing custody of those girls. Not that I think she should have them anyway!
What Kim is doing is making sure her kids have to depend on a MAN to find their self worth. Just like she is doing. The $$$ is more important than the soul and Kim has sold hers and on national tv for all to see. Her wig is to tight. What a no brainer. Hope it was worth it.
As much as it irks me to say this, NeNe is right about one thing–that wig IS squeezin’ the “heffa’s” head too tight! Kim’s delusional!
How does a woman who flaunts her immoral, sexual relationship with another woman’s HUSBAND (who PAYS “for” her….) say her actions aren’t having a negative impact on her young and impressionable daughters? No matter how long they’ve had their “arrangement”, it’s not appropriate for her daughters to be exposed to, and influenced by, her lifestyle. Remember that shopping trip with her 6 year old daughter who says she’s “gonna die wearing Juicy Couture”? The kid shopped like Paris Hilton and spent THOUSANDS of bucks on clothes she’ll out-grow in a few months (especially when she gives her cupcakes so she can pawn her off on the nanny)! There are kids her age who are starving and she’s learning to blow more money in one shopping trip than some people do for six-months’ worth of FOOD! And, her oldest kid is a smart-ass and she hasn’t even hit her teens yet! She was SO disrespectful and rude-mocking NeNe and the tour guide at that King Tut exhibit, I couldn’t believe no one said anything to her! These kids are horrible–even She-by-blah,blah’s kids have better manners–hell, NeNe’s drop-out is more respectful! Did Kim say she sends these kids to paroquial school? (I’ll never forget that Spanish prayer-rap thing when the tampon-chasing nanny told her she was going to hell.) Instead of spending $12K a month on wigs, she needs to find a good therapist-and, because he helped create this mess, she should send the bill to big Poppa! (I always think about the “Papa John’s Pizza” commercial song/jingle “whoa Big Papa….” when I hear him called that but I am SO glad they did NOT ask Kim to sing it–I have a terrible thought: do ya think that’s what she sings when she’s gettin her “groove on” with Mrs. Poppa’s hubby? Rumor is that her name is also Kim, and she’s a BRUNETTE! Maybe they’re swapping wigs for Halloween! Yup, I had to go there…haunting image-ain’t it?)
It’s clear why Kim wasn’t asked to do a monologue about her “pocketbook”–because hers is an ATM! She is extremely selfish and she uses people–Kandi, ex-husband, Poppa, her kids, her “staff” (I still don’t know why an unemployed adulteress “needs” a staff), etc…She doesn’t care how her actions affect others. If she did, she’d realize a lot of people are caught up in, and hurt by her selfish antics. Even if she doesn’t “do” anything in front of her daughters, it’s broadcast to the world and all their classmates (and their parents!) can see/hear all about it! Kids are SO mean and it has to be embarassing and traumatic when they’re picked on and/or JUDGED because of things their mother does/says on the show! And, “Poppa” has kids, a wife and family, too. And, even if he did (temporarily) “put a ring on it” w/her, he has NOT taken the ring OFF his wife……If he does it WITH ya, he will do it TO ya!
Seriously – if Big Poppa is so involved in their life – picking the kids up at school, going to the soccer games, bringing them to Chuck E. Cheese – then how come those paps can’t seem to get a picture of him????? How come – as Kim claimed in Season 1 – very few of her friends have actually met Big Poppa or even know his name?
It’s all fun and games until there is a custody order against you because you are not a good enough mother.
But even if his kids are young adults, it definitely effects them. No one likes their father fathering non-family members.
I like the fact that Andy brings up Big Poppa’s children. While they might be young adults, this situation is MOST certainly effecting them as well and will likely affect any future marriages that involve children.
Kim is giving her daughters the impression that relationships are to bring you material possessions, such as Escalades and jewels. That is not what builds a strong, solid, stable relationship.
As the Mom of a 16yr old daughter that has, at best, an absentee dad, I can promise you Kims Delusion that her situation will not have a negative impact on those girls is just that, a delusion. It may not be surfacing right now…..but hang onto to your Wig Kim, because it is effecting them and you will see just how bad your ridiculous behaviour has effected them in a couple of years. Kim is the single reason I no longer watch the ATL girls. She is so fake, materialistic and has DONE NOTHING to make her own way in this world it is beneath me to give her my time.