Toronto TV personality Mary Jo Eustace is far less than congratulatory of the marriage between her ex-husband and Tori Spelling. In fact, Mary Jo is taking any lingering resentment and putting together a memoir.
Particularly upsetting to Eustace was the new groom’s comment to PEOPLE at his wedding last weekend. He said: “I’ve never had as much of a desire to get married and make a woman my wife as I’ve had with her. The feeling is overwhelming. We’re soul mates.”
Eustace, 44, considers the remark to be “the final nail.”
Eustace went on to express her deep empathy for Jennifer Aniston when referencing her former marriage to Brad Pitt and the breakdown of their marriage because of his affair with Angelina Jolie.
My grandmother always said that any man that can be taken away from one woman can be taken away from the next just as easily.
Makes you wonder just how long Tori and Dean’s “happily ever after” will last.
Update: Rumor has it that Tori Spelling is pregnant! According to sources, the new Mrs. McDermott has been shopping in a hollywood favorite shop, Petit Tresor


What is wrong with his eye? Can’t look at his new wife straight on???
i hope she has a tight prenup; obviously dean’s just after her money and connections.
Isn’t that funny how in everyones opinion its all about money! Obviously both Mary Jo and Dean were living in an unhappy marriage for some time. Things like this don’t just happen overnight. And now yet another book by Mary Jo now! Who cares! Life goes on.
The fact is that both Tori and Dean were already married when they met. It’s too bad they couldn’t think of the feelings of their spouses and children. They had an affair anyway. Tori and Dean committed adultery, which is a big sin. It doesn’t matter at all if they were already in unhappy marriages. It doesn’t make it right what they did. It’s not cool to be married already to someone else and make the decision to carry on an affair with someone else. Not cool at all. It’s too bad in our society that people like Tori and Dean are so looked up to by others, the institution of marriage (God created marriage to be between a man and a woman by the way), and God’s commandments are held in so low self esteem and disregarded. It’s very sad. We must pray for change and a conversion of hearts. We must pray for Tori and Dean and everyone involved. My heart especially goes out to Tori’s ex and Mary Jo and their children. Dean and Tori should have at least thought of the implication of their actions especially on the two innocent children involved, but of course they didn’t. That’s Hollywood for you. In Hollywood (and many places in America) a lot of people just care about themselves it seems. It’s so sad.
I guess the difference comes down to respect. I respect Mary Jo Eustace. She’s earned it. Tori Spelling is all about breaking up a family, destroying a commitment made before God. McDermott is a joke. Anyone who will watch Tori and McDermott t.v. show remember what they have done to the wife and mother left to grieve. Right in the footsteps of Brad and Angelina, poor Jennifer, they were doomed when they met these “liars” they married. What did “for better or worst men”, worst meant Tori and Angelina.
I THINK DEAN IS MRS. TORI SPELLING AND WHERE ARE THE FIRST TWO CHILDREN? WHY AREN’T THEY ON THE DEAN AND TORI SHOW. FOR A WHILE I THOUGHT LIAM WAS HIS FIRST CHILD UNTIL I VISITED THIS SITE. IS SHE PAYING HIS CHILD SUPPORT FOR HIM? SHE SHOULD BE. SHE SHOULD BEWARE AND HOPE HE DOESN’T DO THE SAME TO HER AFTER TWELVE YEARS. GOOD LUCK TO HER, BUT SHE WILL GET WHAT SHE DESERVES. SHE SHOULD TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR BEING STEP MOM TO HIS FIRST TWO. SHE WILL SOON BE IN MARY JO’S SHOES, BECAUSE HE WILL SOON LET HER GO FOR A YOUNGER WOMAN WITH MORE MONEY. ON HIS NEW MOVIE BLAZE WILL FIND A NEW LEADING LADY AND DUMP HER!!! CHILD SUPPORT IS NOT A PARENT!!!!
Since none of us were there when this happened, I have no opinion on this. Only those involved can really know what happened. The other thing I will say is that the problems are always there before anyone else comes into the picture.
I’m embarrassed that mary jo wrote about it. Why bother – have some dignity!
I agree with what Tori and Dean said, you can’t help who you fall in love with even if they were both already married. Come on, we all know they wouldn’t have fallen in love with each other if they had been happily married who doesn’t know that?
Peppermintpatty should be mature enough to know, that marriage is a commitment, not only to each other, but before God, each other, children, families. When things seem like they are getting “stale”, then it’s up to each person to work and put in 100%, especially when kids are involved. You must remember what made you fall in love with that person in the first place. Unless the person is an abuser or addicted to something, you stay and make the marriage work. Divorce comes to easily, to those who just want someone different. When the day comes that peppermintpatty is married and her husband/wife cheats and just leaves the marriage, kids, home just because someone is prettier/richer/etc, then talk to me about what your commitment meant. Why get married at all if you just want to change partners like playing musical chairs. This is the reason there are so many kids on drugs, and feeling unloved because the people who made them out of love walk out, and forget their commitment to the kids, and they don’t get a say. Your thoughts that things just don’t happen overnight…I agree, but end and fix one problem before jumping into the next relationship and bringing more children into the world to only end up like their first children…..sad and lonely….and you know what “I CARE”!!
I have been a big fan of Tori spelling for awhile. Sometimes you can’t help with fate brings, even the more beautiful flower grows from dirt. You cant help who you fall in love with. God doesnt put you in a situation unless he knows you can handle it. Obviously it was meant to be or it wouldn’t have happend the way it did. Nobody should judge anybody unless you know the true facts.
I’ve watched their show and all they talk about is how the paparazzi’s going to bother them. The paparazzi this and the paparazzi that. They wish!! They’re both legends in their own minds!
Carol and MTL are totally right. Marriage is a commitment. It is NOT “until unhappiness do us part.”
Kandice wrote, “You cant help who you fall in love with.” While you are single, that may be true. However, when you are married, you do not have choices. That is just the way it is. Regardless of who you “love,” you are married. You are taken. You have no right to just leave. You need to be an adult and live up to your commitment.
In my humble opinion, you at least need to “earn” your way out of your marriage by spending years in counseling and giving 100%. Sorry, you CANNOT just play the “I’m unhappy” card and run off with your boyfriend. You need to put in the time and effort. You made your bed.
From a Christian standpoint, I believe one should never leave his or her marriage. From a practical standpoint, I do believe some marriages cannot be saved. However, just playing the “I’m unhappy” card and blazing off is totally wrong.
If we kept leaving relationships for who we “loved,” your life would be comprised of numerous short term relationships. Having children should not even be considered because one may fall “in love” with the new hottie at work. Children would just complicate things when one leaves. It would not be probable one would leave. It would simply be a matter of when.
Kandice’s notion is rather troubling. This would mean her husband would be right in just getting up and leaving because he “loves” someone else.
I would pay to see her husband of many years walk in the door one day and say, “Honey, our marriage was good for a few years. However, I am unhappy. I met a girl at work who is my soul mate. Good luck with the kids. You will be hearing from my attorney.” Something tells me she would not like this. She would probably want him hanged by his testicles to the nearest tree.
The REALLY disturbing aspect is how so many people in our society think something is okay. It is REALLY okay if I’m the one blazing out of my marriage without working on it at all. But, when it actually happens to THEM, all of a sudden they are hopping mad, it is totally wrong and they want the world to know. When you are forming your opinions, I really think you should consider how you would feel to be on both sides.
I think they make a GREAT couple && hope they have a long lasting marriage!.. You can tell they both are REALLY in love with one another. I wish them the best..
I WISH T&&D LOTS OF LOVE & LUCK! I THINK THEY TRULY LUV EACH OTHER OR WHY WOULD THEY B TOGETHER 2 KIDS LATER!!!
I WISH T&&D LOTS OF LOVE & LUCK! I THINK THEY TRULY LUV EACH OTHER. DON’T THINK DEANS AFTER HER MONEY- WHAT MONEY?!?! HER MOTHER GOT IT ALL
Diane, the reason they are still together is something “better” has not come along yet.
If kids keep a marriage together, why isn’t Dean still with wife #1?
i just feel Tori took ,maryjo’s husaband theen has her removed from a social event and cuts her up.Why? Seems Tori may be somewhat intimidated? Maryjo & Dean lasted 12 yrs. It’s all new love.So the children & the yrs, together and he still left .
I say look out Tori ,the same will happen to you.
Does he not recognize Lola as his daughter anymore?Did he divorce her as well,because she was adopted?
I agree with Ricardo!
Seems he takes the commitment and vows as they were meant…”seriously”, just as I have. I think these “glamour” girls born with silver spoons in their mouths, think they can buy or have anything they wantm especially men. The Tori’s, Britney’s, Angie’s of the world just don’t seem to realize who they are really hurting…..”the kids”. Kid’s don’t divorce their parents, but the Mothers and Fathers show them that they can walk out on spouse’s and family any time they feel like it….what role models hey! Kids don’t ask for anything except “love”, and what they end up with is “pain from divorce, from being discarded by a parent, by feeling they have done something wrong and caused the break-up, mistrusting love everafter because of their severed unity”….I wish everyone in this world who is about to take marriage vows for the first time, would really consider their actions, seriously, if all of this was thought about allot of heartache would be avoided.
I too would like to know why there is no reference to the baby girl he adopted with wife #1 ??????
Thank you Libby…what about the little girl?
Dean and Tori both are a mess, and they will get what they deserve. Tori should have been worried about “scubagirl” because she was going to get Dean sorry butt!!! I really like Tori but karma is a bitch is a bitch my friend!!!
And as soon as Dean is not happy with her will will be onto the next pay check!!! And Tori is not cute…thank god for surgery….or she would be in trouble. She must be great in the sack!!!
YES!! what about his other little girl..how comehe never mentions her, and refers to his family being complete when jack comes to vist! WHAT IS GOING ON..did he forget about about his first little girl.
I’m just watching for the first time. I’m confused. T & D’s 2nd child together is born and they decide to have a housewarming party a week or so after her birth. Jack, D’s son from first marriage goes as surprise to D. D says “now my life is complete” I have all my children under one roof. I thought his ex had just given birth at the same time D left her. Is this child not recognized by him? If this is the case, he is the lowest form of human life.
lynda,
Dean and Mary Jo had one biological son and an adopted daughter. Dean left shortly after they adopted their daughter.
Ricardo
Thanks Ricardo.
You can NOT take or steal another person’s husband…they go because they want to go!
I heard that Dean’s Ex will Not let him see their daughter…he is upset about it..she is the mean one here! I love Dean and Tori together..they are really in love..as are my husband and I
Oh PLEASE everyone knows that its all about money. Stop trying to kid your selves..Dean And Mary jo moved to the US to further his acting carrier. Its more then obvious he only married the ugliest chick in hollywood for her money and connections. (as a previous poster put it) To bad it didn’t work out.. now they are both d list celebs living in a d list world. whatevs…
Linda.. are you kidding me? If my spouse left me 2 months after we adopted a child id probably say screw you and not let him near the kid either. It was two months after ffs!! comon.. you’re acting as if he knew the kid.. acting as if he cared about the kid. he decided to leave…MONTHS after the adompted her… he most likely didnt even KNOW the kid. Him and his son… still have a relationship so i don’t think shes doing anything she shouldn’t. He left her.. for an ugly arse skank with money.. and you think hes the good guy? you have messed up preceptions of right and wrong.
I used to enjoy watching Tori and Dean, but after realizing the ugly truth of how their marriage began, it all makes me ill. Commitment in Hollywood seems to mean nothing. Only “feelings” seem to matter.
Cheating is wrong.. everbody knows that i think that its sad the the exs were hurt and maybe Tori and Dean should have divored and then pursued there relationship.. but if you do watch their show you can see that obiviously they love each other I do believe that just because someone cheats once they will again its possible, but not a fact what ever happened to believing in love
Tori and Dean have not hurt anyone. They realized through faults and failure that they were married to the wrong people. Before we judge these two..let us
look at OURSELVES. Are any of US…without fault. I pray that we allow these
two young people to prosper and raise thier children and live and healthy and
God fearing life. I pray they are in love forever abd a day.