A lot of you think that I am too hard on Gretchen Rossi but when she is taking fake wedding photos and putting them on Flickr, then I have no reason but to be consistently sarcastic about her never-ending quest for fame. If Gretchen were to marry Slade, it would be on the show, and we would all know about it. I mean, DANG, Gretchen, give it a rest, already! 
If you have any proof at all that this pair did actually get married, as in you were there, you know them personally, you catered their party, etc, then I’d love to hear it. For right now, I call shenanigans!
[Image: Bauer-Griffin]

I don’t know if it’s true but they are insanely gorgeous together, I love those pics!
That would be great!
Maria, You sound a bit jealous every time you talk about Gretchen, hmmmm. She is a gorgeous woman who is doing positive things with her life. What’s your problem?
If you want to slam someone why not slam nasty b*tches like Vicki or Tamra?
Yeah Heather put up or shut up. When I see a picture Tamra letting a random stalker nibble on her crotch, riding topless in a car, or baring her fanny for the cameras, ubetcha I’ll be reporting on it!!!
I like Maria’s blog because she is unbiased and wants a wee bit of EVIDENCE before running with anonymous rumors — like one of those pictures that is worth more than 2,000 words written in a blog. SHEESH.
Gretchen’s blog has been re-posted in her personal website. http://www.gretchenrossi.com
Frankly it doesn’t bother me if she has staged pics or not!! Who cares? I believe it’s all a part of keeping your name
woopsy….continued….. keeping your name in the spotlight. If celebs never went out, to events and such, we would tend to forget about them. I simply can’t wait for the new season!! Will there be another young hottie in addition to Gretchen? Anyone new would be better than watching Tamra or Vicki!
Yes, there is someone new. A young thirty-something with a husband, three kids and is HOT, HOT, HOT. She knows Gretchen AND Jay and their true story . . . I think she’ll rattle a few cages . . . love it!!!!
With Jeana leaving the show, they’re bound to bring in another young “wife” to piss off Vicki and Tamra! Forget New Jersey, bring back the OC and NYC!
DUH/Tamra, You are a moron. Nothing Gretchen has done compares to the trailer trash Tamra is.
Let’s see…..
-Bringing her kids on a booze cruise and doing beer bongs right in front of her young kids, proceeding to get sloppy drunk.
-Having those same little ones in her kitchen at her “naked wasted” party while she stumbles around her kitchen cursing, drunk off her fat ass.
-Exploiting and exposing little kids on a reality show for any price is the LOW of the low…..she will pimp her kids out for $1.
-Dresses and acts like a whore right in front of her kids, what a great role model. Every kid should see their mom grab their father’s balls and yell expletives, so classy.
-Lying her way onto a show knowing she was flat broke (forget about money for her kids, she spends it all on herself). Lying to everyone about the boat, fake rolex and fake diamond bracelet…..the woman can’t tell the truth to save her life. Now she is losing her home and her kids will yet again have not much.
Gretchen is a saint compared to trailer trash Tamra and everyone knows it.
what the hell.
Welcome to Maria’s place Lori. I find it amusing that some people think that the only person who likes and defends Tamra must be Tamra. Using that logic, Heather is so obviously Gretchen.
So Heather, when’s the last time Gretchen popped her pretty head into a Real Estate office to do some work? Or any paid work that doesn’t involve a camera?
thx for the welcome
these wedding pictures are amusing. they are gorgeous shots, but it feels weird. it would be nice if Slade had a stable thing/RELATIONSHIP going for the kids though, im sure that’s what he wants, right?
ooOOOoo the new housewife !!!!!1
Well if you look around other boards it’s pretty obvious that people like Gretchen and hate Tamra.
I saw on a blog where the blogger actually tracked hundreds of hate posts about Gretchen to Tamra’s address, if that’s not obsessed than I don’t know what is.
If they got married good for them, the pics are gorgeous.
Yes, even I’ll give Gretchen credit where credit is due. She looks fantastic in that gown.
Lori, I will give you a little scoop from Facebook. Can anyone say WOO HOO!!!
Mike Wolfsmith – im going skydiving tomorrow with my mom and sister for the show :0
Also, Tamra bought Simon skydiving lessons as a Father’s Day gift.
I just saw the wedding pics, wow! She is stunning! They will have beautiful babies together.
Yeah but if they have kids and divorce, slade won’t pay child support. He’s a deadbeat dad.
She won’t need his money since she has her own
. He is one lucky guy to get someone that hot with money.
And she is one stupid broad to give it to him. Out of all the fish in the sea, Gretchen picks THAT. Strategic dating indeed. Pfftt.
I agree with Dana, no one likes Tamra, she is a backstabbing bitch and I think Gretchen should give her what she deserves this next season! A royal bitch ass slapping! Then she should give this Jay douche bag a good smack as well, by suing his ass for stalking charges! He is one sick bastard. He is obviously scorned and cannot let her go, that is the definition of a psychopath. Everyone around town can hardly stand to be around that guy from what I hear. He is obsessed.
The wedding photo’s where part of a photo shoot they did for a wedding expo. The Photographer leaked the photo on her flickr page hoping to generate more business for herself, pay attention people. She only had permission to use the photo at the expo in printed form. Gretchen’s attorney has requested they be removed. Why do you assume Gretchen has anything to do with this. She isn’t taking the pictures of herself and she isn’t the one selling them. There is demand for her, face it. If you have a problem with her in press then tell the Photogs to leave her alone.
David, EXACTLY! She is a gorgeous woman and photographers love taking her pic (she has a great personality too). Tamra & Jay are so consumed with jealousy that they come on here and try to bad mouth her all the time, it is so old at this point.
She is hot and has a lot going for her so good for her! The haters are just jealous.
Gretchen hears cha ching.lol. I love it. Go girl.lol
Is that Jen? Hi Jen!! lol
Hi Anica, It sure is I. What have I missed? fill me in.lol
I’m still convinced it’s all staged. Slade ran out of money, Gretchen was in real estate and this is the only incoem source she has at the moment. I don’t believe for a minute this is a real relationship. Time will tell.
I could see Gretchen trying help Slade out because they were friends but Gretchen does not need money, she has more money than the other housewives (and that’s not even including what Jeff left her which was a lot).
That’s why that psycho Jay has been after her trying to get her money because he is a broke deadbeat without a job.
As for the show, the only one I respect is Gretchen! She makes me laugh while the others just make me depressed. Oh, I also like Don.
Tamara picked the wrong person to be her best friend: Vicki. Their husbands are polar opposites and what works for Vicki wouldn’t work for Tamara.
Apparently, Tamra had a terrible life; the way she behaves and talks is something learned. Simon thought he could change her, but as his children are getting older, Tamara is no longer the sweet, loving wife that wants to listen to him. That’s not what he wants his children to learn from a mother. Or perhaps, as Gretchen mentioned, the divorce is just a publicity stunt.
I am not jealous of Gretchen. It is possible to be sarcastic about someone without being “jealous.” I write more about her because there is more to report. I find her fameball antics to be amusing.
I wrote about Vicki last week when her photos showed up on the dirty and wrote about tamra’s house when a bunch of people on the oc register website said it was going to be foreclosed on. If anyone ever produces real evidence about all of the rumors that are constantly spouted about the Barneys, I will post on them, too.
I think this was the plan all along. Rumor has it that slade was the one who brought gretchen to the RHOC producers and that he wanted to date her on the show and create conflict. Remember when he brought his new girlfriend to Jeana’s end of season 2 party (i think, or season 3?) right after he broke up with Jo? And when he started dating Lauri? And then to have her go to the music video shoot for Jo (which she was cut out of)… Slade needs to be in the spotlight at all times.
Thanks for clearing that up! I thought that’s what they were.