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Have you seen the Lifetime show, Lisa Williams: Life Among The Dead? If so, report back immediately!
It is about a British clairvoyant who talks to the dead, among other talents. I know I should watch it because, really, I need to know about these things. But I regret to inform you that I do not believe anyone who would go on TV and claim to be clairvoyant would actually turn out to be so.
So please, gentle Medium fan, watch Lisa Williams: Life Among The Dead, so I don’t have to.
REPORT BACK IMMEDIATELY.
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What happened to Michelle B and Linda and everyone else?
Mike… does your situation have anything to do with a previous husband or boyfriend of your wife’s? A former lover? It seems like it’s a physical person, with attached emotions to your wife – not the other realm.(ghost, demon, someone that’s passed on)
Jenkralc,
Yes, it is a man my wife knew many, many years ago. She only spent a couple weeks with him. She thinks she knows him, but she doesn’t. She doesn’t know alot of disturbing things about him. I have found out things from old former friends and his ex-wife. His ex isn’t looking for revenge. She just doesn’t want my wife to go through what she went through. She is very concerned about my wife. He’s not a good man. He showed up at a time when we were having problems. He was still married at the time too. Our problems wern’t bad enough to destroy our marriage.
I keep getting very strong feelings that I should not give up on my wife. That she will eventually realize how evil this man is and that she will come back to me and want to reconcile. I’ve been with my wife for nearly half my life, 21 years. I know her so well, and she is not herself at all. She has had alot of stress and a few traumatic incidents in the first part of this year. This guy is a manipulator and con man. Her entire family can see it and they don’t like how he had changed her. They have warned her, but she won’t listen.
I know many people, including Judith, have told me to forget about her and move on. But there is something telling me not to. It’s strong enough to make me take notice. We have another divorce mediation appointment at the end of this week. The last one went OK. I hope the things I said to her have made her think a little. Any insite from you befor Friday would be great! My E-mail is osatchuck@yahoo.com. Please feel free to write to me.
Thank You!
Mike
Judith….I sent you an e-mail.
Mike
Mike,
The question isnt whether you should give up on your wife..the fact is she has given up on you..
The question now is…are you willing to forgive her? Why has she done this to begin with? and can you trust her not to do it again?
Something was lacking which caused this action to start with.. can you find what this is to correct it if your willing to face the answers to the above questions…
Sometimes change IS a good thing.. opportunity for improvement is present… On both sides… dont look away from opportunity that presents its self. Its there for a reason.
I hope things work out for you..
StephCT,
I am willing to forgive her. I know what was lacking in our marriage. I have already worked on my shortcomings, and of course it will be an ongoing endevor. Trusting her to never do this again would be something to work on. That’s for sure. Trust comes with time.
The fact is that I have this OVERWELMING feeling to not give up on her and to be patient and just keep a forgiving heart for her. I can’t shake the feeling that she will get burned in her current situation and she will need me there to help her put herself back together. I have had some feelings and thought come over me since this has all began and so far those feelings and thoughts have come to fruition. I trust what my heart and gut is telling me. Does that make sense?
Mike
Mike, I would never tell anyone to dump someone else….all I truly get is what you yourself tell me. At the time it sounded like a real dead end for you.
If you in your heart truly feel the unfinished business of this relationship, then give it all you got guy!
You will never know until you try.
When we love someone, we will ALWAYS love them. It’s just that sometimes ….we dont like them or what they become.
Most generally, our problems are from some outside source and we lose communication and then it just goes downhill. Sometimes the answer to our problem is just the distance from our knees to the floor….then look to God for the maximum assistance. He never fails us….ever.
See if you can open the floodgates of brutal honesty and caring and feel your way very gently. Hopefully to a brighter tomorrow. Love will conquer any situation if approached with care.
as always ….my very best to you
Judith,
It’s weird because the things my wife says indicate she has given up on me and moved on. Commonsense tells me I should move on too. I can tell you that I am doing OK and I am not interested in starting another relationship. I really believe that God will tell me when it’s time to move on. Until then, I feel like I have to follow what I believe God is telling me.
Mike