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At the beginning of this endless season of Real Housewives of Atlanta, the producers made me feel a little bad for Kim Zolciak. Having your ex-twin tug on your wig is just wrong. Watching her rise like a phoenix in Kandi’s studio as she grimaced her way through the hook of “Don’t Be Tardy For The Party” was damn near inspirational. You can make your dreams happen! As long as you have a sugar daddy to support you all the way.
Well, today I’m back on being skeptical of anything Kim says. After having Kandi do her the favor of turning her song into a club hit, she flaked on showing up to Kandi’s performance. Maybe a branch of BevMo was opening up in her area or she had to go to a cellulite massager appointment (maybe it’ll be Velashape, the treatment Gretchen Rossi is shilling?). It’s messed up to ruin the one alliance you have left on the show.
Then there was the engagement ring. After her fake conflict in last week’s pool party for two, in a shocking turn of events, Kim goes back to Big Poppa. She shows up to her joint birthday party with Kandi and waves her “big-ass” rock around. The scene with Kim and her party planners was great because Kim requested “no cheap food.” She must mean a $5 Big Mac as opposed to a .99 double cheeseburger. Remember this is the lady who refused to eat table-side guacamole at an upscale Mexican restaurant and who admitted that her kids only eat from drive throughs. So, this new found appreciation for upscale cuisine was priceless.
In ShereeWorld, she went to New York to meet with her seamstress. She wants to avoid all that unpleasantness of last year and have a fashion show with fashions. I’m surprised the hotel wasn’t product placed. She met with Dwight, and hilariously suggested they do an invitation via evite. Oh, Sheree. Even college parties where the main attraction is all you can drink 40s have been taken off of evite. Facebook invite is the way to go, boo!
Lisa was on the show but her segments are so scripted and calculated I fast forward through them. Apparently next week there’ll be a fake scene where we’ll have to endure her taking a pregnancy test. I think Lisa is being groomed to leave the show. Nene had very little screen time, though she did get to pretend she’s going to install a pool into the backyard of her rental. Next week, she’ll throw another charity benefit. By the way, what’s ever happened with the Twisted Hearts Foundation, the charity she started and threw a benefit for last year? I did some digging and found a blog post where a woman talks about her friend who attempted to donate money to the foundation, only to be told it doesn’t exist. Their headquarters must be in the same office as Lisa’s businesses and Kim’s wig line.
[Image: Bravo/NBC Universal]
FROM WIKIPEDIA:
Twisted Hearts Foundation was not a charity but a non-profit LLC, a failed organization suspected of money laundering. It was mailed a notice on 17 September 2010 that it was involuntarily or administratively dissolved or its certificate of authority revoked by the Office of Secretary of state for failure to file its annual registration.[11]
I find it AWFULLY telling that so many have a problem with NeNe’s behavior, but would seek to EXCUSE Kim’s. This is disgusting and just goes to show how low we have fallen as a society. Kim is parading around with a married man; PROUDLY telling anyone who will listen (OR WATCH “Her Show”) that this man, (who has young adult children with feeling who probably watch this show), sleeps at her house, pays her bills and proposed to her. This Trick has no shame. Still, one would think that this sort of immoral behavior would be shunned by the public at-large! But, no, since Kim is viewed as a victim of Big Bad NeNe, what she does is excused (by the majority) whilst NeNe who isn’t making a mockery of her wedding vows or setting a bad example in front of her children gets crucified.
Just goes to show there is no accounting for taste (and Real Values) in America. Consequently, if certain people in America view you as a “victim” they will excuse your degrading, filthy lifestyle. Double Standards and Hypocrites rule the day!
I couldn’t resist jumping into the Nene vs Kim fued; because although Nene may be a bully, Kim is a Used-up, Trashy, User. And like someone else mentioned, a User is way worse in my book. Just like Kim has been caught in too many lies to count and trash-talking all the other Atlanta Housewives at the drop of a dime, I guarantee that Kim will stab Kandi in the back the first chance she gets, because that’s what Users do! This woman is a no-good, slutty-garbage bin (i.e., Trash Box as Nene so aptly coined).
She trash-talked and denigrated Sheree with Nene (even had her oldest kid in on the trash-talking). Then when she fell out with Nene she trashed and insulted Nene with Sheree. She talked about and trashed Lisa, even though Lisa had never did anything to her. And if all that low-down Two-Facedness wasn’t enough — she trashed and talked about all the Atlanta Housewives to the Housewives of New York and Orange County. If Kandi’s Mom wants to protect her from someone, it should be from Nasty Kim; or else stand by to pull the knives out of her daughters back.
Plus, isn’t it funny how Kim LOVES to always talk about who doesn’t have any so-called “Class.” This woman is BEYOND deranged. How “Classy” is it to NOT have a job/gainful employment, but need a full-time Babysitter for your kids. How “Classy” is it to have to depend on another woman’s HUSBAND to foot ALL your bills? How “Classy” is it to teach your impressionable children that Mommy is a slutty H-O, who doesn’t even have the decency to not parade her filthy lifestyle (with a married man) in public!
A bully is better to deal with than a Two-faced, No-Good, Slutty, User —- any day!
Nene, eventually Bravo fans saw your true spirit come out progressively through the show. You tried to blame the Bravo show editors for making you look like a villain. No Nene – the fact is Bravo fans saw what you truly are = a Lumpy Moosey Tranny who is a Rotten Atlanta Peach to the core! Regarding assault: Kim including anyone who is has been physically assaulted by you should have had you arrested. You are a hypocrite, you were a victim of violence yet were and are are violent toward others, verbally and physically. You are a poor representative of victims, even though Twisted Hearts and the Heel the Soul- Stiletto Woman is rooted in good intentions, you tarnish it all due to your violent bulling tranny moosey behavior on the the show. Bravo executives, please kick her off the show! Nene in negotiations with her own show = disgusting!
Does anyone else feel like some of these “housewives” are really bad representatives of the female gender? They’re horrible role models! The way some of these broads behave plays into the stereotypes strong women have been fighting about a century to overcome! Of all the women on the show, Kandi is the only one I’d want as a friend.
I thought Kim’s performance at the “alter ego” party was absolutely ridiculous! After busting her butt, she makes it back to her car, lights a cig, pops in a CD and then, when she has tons of people fretting over her, she is suddenly in agony and can’t even bear to stand?? Even the biggest “drama queen” would be able to learn from that performance! (If “Big Papa” stops the money train, I bet she’ll sue everybody she can over that fall!) Then, at that ridiculous “She-by-sheree” independence shindig, she shows up on crutches claiming she has a “hairline fracture”–oddly, she was well enough to strut around on those horrible red feathered stilts with her silicone and celulite cinched up to her chin the next night at her birthday party! As for the song, Kim, open your ears, YOU CAN’T SING! Anyone can sound good when the right studio equipment and producers are editing your vocals-My barn cat would sound good if she had a Grammy winning team working for her! Please, do all of us a favor and accept your limitations (musically and personally) and find a respectable way to support yourself and your kids.
As for “She-by-sheree” AND her clothing line, I wouldn’t walk in from the rain to see either. She’s a shallow, manipulative, LOW BRED shrew. The people working on that clothing line should be careful, they might end up with some fabric shears in their back! (She has, however, given us a great quote this year….”Who gonna check me, Boo?”) I think she’s got some serious trailer trash in her pedigree (or lack thereof), too. Like Kim said, they do look like “twins”…..
This does not surprise me at all, after all this is a woman who is so completely selfish that she doesn’t even think twice about having an affair with a married man and how must that must hurt his wife and children.
She is scum.
here’s a video of Kim’s big poppa with his family
http://www.mtv.com/global/music/videos/popout/?id=1612149
http://www.tmz.com/2009/08/10/real-housewives-inside-big-poppas-crib/
I think Kim is gross, she goes around promoting the fact that she is sleeping with a married man. What’s even more disturbing is that she has two little girls in training. I’m 25yrs old and have been married for two yrs, I’m young but I have the common sense to never be a man’s # 2 and would hate to be in the postition where my marrieage was disrupted my a woman who has no morals/ values.
Kim is as dumb as a doorknob, Big poppa should have handed her signed divorce papers instead. The engagement ring was just a pacifier.
So haters will still be haters – either Kim is a bad mom or a bad friend – she really can’t win
quote from another website:
My daughter Brienna was really sick that night,” Kim said. She said she had called Kandi earlier and that Kandi was cool.
“She’s understanding,” Kim said. “I wouldn’t miss something like that especially after all the work she did on ‘Tardy for the Party.’ I wouldn’t just not show up.”
The producers did not explain why Kim wasn’t there. It gave the impression she just callously skipped it.
What upset her more: Lisa’s snide comment that Kim may have gotten a disease, a joke referencing Kim’s “cancer” scare she talked about at the first season reunion. “Who talks like that?” she said. “That’s so low! She’s a mother and a wife. That’s not funny. It’s a little too much for me. It’s one thing to make fun of somebody and make it cut but to really insult them…”
Hi all!
Michelleml I enjoyed reading your post, The part about MeMe was hilarious and so ture!
Ronda I too wondered why MeMe went on and on about her relationship with Greg is solid, we are solid and can’t nobody knock us down…yadi,yadi,ya. As loud as she is she never firmly denied the fact that she cheated on Greg with Charles.
Morning Nell, MeSoo & Hello Michelle! I so enjoy reading your posts. It’s clear that we don’t condone Kim’s behavior when it comes to her affair w/Big Poppa. It’s MeMe’s behavior that have all our panties in a bunch. :-)
Remember the look on Kim’s face when MeMe first told her to “close your legs to married men”? Well, I had the same look, I was surprised at that outburst. MeMe knew about and condoned Kim’s behavior, then to get high and mighty and throw it in Kim’s face was cruel. Then there’s her confrontation with Kandi, oh how I wish Kandi would have decked her. Once again she gave her standard speech, …you should have come to me, I don’t even know you blah, blah, blah… She criticized Kandi’s singing, questioned her (Grammy winning) talent, called her ghetto (pot, meet kettle), mocked the way Kandi speaks, talked about AJ (RIP). I could go on. Kandi put it best, she heard about it but let it slide because people will talk. As usual Kandi (and Kim) did the right thing and walked away from her while MeMeZilla stayed behind with that stupid grin on her face.
I said before, I will reserve judgement until I find out why Kim didn’t go to Kandi’s function. MeMe was on Watch Happens Live after the show Thursday night and I’m sure if it was that Kim blew Kandi off MeMe would have been shouting about it. Anyway, we’ll see.
BTW, one more thing, how come when MeMe talks about Greg (I love him), she talks about how much he loves her and how tight they are but not how much she loves him. Maybe I missed her saying it, just wondering.
Hey meospretty and Nell,
You guys practically summed up most of what i’m thinking…but just a few comments. Now Kim did say her kid was sick, don’t know if it’s true, But is was better than sherre’s “son doing a concert” that lasted into the wee hours of the pm. I LOVED the way the guy busted her out!
As for big poppa, if he was spending i’d be taking, but i’d also be banking a good bit of it…no good thing lasts forever and i’m not dumb enough to think he REALLY gonna leave his wife!
As for nene, Kandi should have ripped her head off by now. First there was the comment at the photo reveal “i wanted her to be a woman and a man (or was it bride and groom?) since i don’t know her that well” or what ever it was. What did she see about Kandi that looked manish. If she wants to see manish, she needs to look in the mirror for sure! Then there was the “Kandi seems ghetto” remark. If you check the dictionary under ghetto bitch, nene’s picture is right there. She has NO CLASS WHAT-SO-EVER. She would be shunned in D.C. and laughed/run out of New York City society. Apparently she picked up that ghetto stuff while she was stripping (and many strippers moonlight on their back). And she talked about Kim being a prostitute. Alter ego my foot…that pic was the real nene.
Oh, and my heart goes out to Kandi and A,J.’s family. His death is a tragedy like so many others amongst our people. However, maybe Kandi’s Mom picked up something. There’s such a thing as putting yourself in the wrong place. Glad Kandi wasn’t with him at the time. I’m not judging…just food for thought.
Peace…out
I could really go on but i’ll stp here…you can get on a roll with these folks. Please note the capitalization or lack thereof for names. There’s a message there too.
Hey mesoopretty,
Yeah, I heard..sad isn’t it. And shocking it made me really sad just because we’ve ‘interacted’ with him…just by watch him with Khandi. I commented a bit on that.
I hoping Kim has a good reason though and not prove every body right. I really don’t think she would miss it on purpose.
But we will see won’t we gurl. Later “mesoo”.
Hi Nell,
I’ll wait to next week to give my verdict as you said. Did you hear what happened to Kandi’s ex?
As for NeNe…and the ‘self-sufficient pity party’ she is having for herself (but shared with Lisa) on how she is so basically shocked about Kim’s decision to give her large-head the ax off her song– is a classic example of a ‘self-centered’ person. This chick actually thinks that Kim (and I’m just focusing on their past/present friendship not the Big Poppa thang) used her! It’s make no sense to have a big brain such as NeNe and not get tha’ fact that friends don’t do friends like she has Kim. We are talking strictly friends here.
That “close yo’ legs trash” repetitive one-liner…is getting old…very old. First of all, she didn’t mind that Kim was a Prostitute with Benefits when they were cool..so why is it a prob now? Because at the time Kim was her “Road Dog” but sooner or later dogs bite back when kick…or…they just leave. Kim is that dog (or puppy)…which ever one prefers. Point is…she tired of being kicked. NeNe has went outta her way to humiliate Kim.
One of many things I now hate about NeNe (I use ta love her) is when she sees Kim’s children. She huggin’ all over them…loud talking like she got cornmeal stuck in her damn throat–”No matter what I DO love Kim’s girls”. Basically, she trying to isolate Kim from her children as well. It’s called keeping a presence of herself in Kims home as well. Make a mental note dummy. Don’t no kids like anyone who dogs their parents in public or out. Blood is thicker than water so quit acting like a fraken ‘crack-head’.
“Kim is a low-down monkey wit a wig”? (unquote)…You are straight trash NeNe…and to be friends with you is to be friends with Satan himself…because you pedal evil ways. All because you are too egotistical to humble yourself when you are wrong. Your treatment of Kim…is wrong. If Kim is a low-down monkey wit a wig…then you are the Queen Low-Down Monkey wit a wig.
A badly styled wig at that most times.
Hey “mesoopretty”…you know I’m wit chu’ girl (but lets wait before we hang ole’ “Absent from tha’ Party” until the next episode. Don’t you think it’s kind of strange that they made such a big deal about her not showing up…BUT–Kim was not in ANY…of the previews for the next episode to aire NEXT Thursday? Let’s wait for the verdict on that reason.
But I’m trippin’ on tha’ fackt that this hooka’ (per THIS blog subject matter) calls herself engaged to a man that is ummmm…DAMN….married? WTF is that?
What I’m also trippin’ on is: If Puddy-Chasin’ Poppa, ain’t afraid to be seen by Kim’s friends i.e Khandi for one–(who could ‘out’ him by leaking photos of his sleazy azz)…WHY IN THA’ HELL CAN’T WE (viewers) SEE THIS CHUMP? Hell, that’s like havin uh damn burger with no Helmans Mayo. Ummm…I love Hellmans Mayonaise. Anyway, I’m tired of hearing his moniker…I–We…wanna see this kitty-chasin’ face.
She cracked her lips open in the first season that he likes to remain anonymous well…he must not want to be THAT damn anonymous.
Assignment for Maria…dig deeper gurl…find out who this chump is and post his face.
Repost:
Kim is on some bulls*** I can’t wait to hear what excuse she have for not showing up to Kandi’s show. I can’t stand bullies(NeNe), but I can’t stand users(Kim) even more. How she gonna do Kandi like that when she repaired her self esteem and gave her a hit song for free on her part. I am pissed, Kandi is too nice and too naive to put he foot up her arse. I guess the girls were right about Kim, dang!
O/T: anyone noticed who smooth and easy the show ran without NeNe’s rude antics and loud mouth hijacking the camera?
Well Kim was crying broke two episodes so it only makes sense to go back to Big Poppa since she’s a prostitute whore. I still don’t understand why she has a nanny and personal assistant. Is she really smashed on wine that much?
When Kim was leaving her house – did she already have that ring? Or did it some how mysteriously appear before the Birthday Party?
Sheree did say it best Um – Isn’t he already married?
The bust on that dress Kim was wearing – it was made for someone with a cup size about 10 sizes smaller than Kim.
I think the only reason Lisa is still on the show is because she provides the eye candy better known as ED. Yum. Kim is so messy she will never care about anyone unless it benefits her.
I really hope they don’t write Lisa out. I don’t hate her. What I hate is how every season on every show they either have to add a new housewife, can one, or one peaces mid season so another can pop in. I’d like some stability, Bravo. But I guess that’s silly to ask. None of the housewives themselves are stable!