I can do nothing but agree with you: once again Chris screws everything up and is just being selfish.
He always comes first et never thinks about helping Lorelai like she always did for him, and his extended family.
From the very first episode he appeared on I never liked him and my feelings only grew worse about him…

Not sure if I totally agree with you. Yes Lorelai is not the sort to delibertly hurt anyone however common sence and normal Lorelai do seem to go flying out the window when christopher is involved. I think Chris is selfish when she turns up at his door upset saying she doesn’t want to be alone. He should have helped her sort out her problems (like she has done for him when helping to look after Gigi etc) rather than jumping into bed with her when she is vunerable.

They had the most amazing relationship ever portrayed on TV, first as friends and then as lovers. They never got boring or all mushy.

That’s why their second breakup is a total non sense.
Yes Luke had been a jerk but Lorelai made some mistakes. She keeps her mouth shut for months, avoids Luke in the end but she drops the elopement bomb out of the blue, walks away and ends up in somebody else’s bed!

That was completely out of character because it was not like Lorelai to hurt someone, especially Luke, on purpose.

So regarding the breakup I blame them both but mostly I blame the writers because the French elopement was a very crazy idea.
They should have let Luke and Lorelai heal and eventually work things out without involving Mister never not stupid.

I’m still bitter about the way the show ended and I don’t think it will ever go away, unless we miraculously get a TV movie…