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Rate J-Lo's Loves and Win a Copy of How to Make Love With Your Clothes On

Jennifer Lopez has had quite a few steamy love affairs in her day. But which was the hottest? Your opinion could win you a copy of How to Make Love With Your Clothes On: 101 Ways to Romance Your Husband.

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Take a look at the guys below and leave a comment by Thursday, June 5th on who you think is the hottest. I’ll choose a winner at random from the comments on Friday, June 6th.

Ready to voice your opinion? Here are your choices:

Ojani Noa
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J-Lo Claim to Fame: First Marriage (Feb. 22, 1997 – Jan. 1998)

Jennifer met Ojani when he was a waiter in a Miami restaurant. He proposed to her during the wrap party after the filming of Selena in front of a whole bunch of people. What else could she do but accept? The marriage didn’t even last a year, and it appears that Jen tried to remain friends with him and even made him the manager of her restaurant, Madre’s. He didn’t last quite six months at that job and was fired. Then he tried to write a tell-all book about Jen, including details of their sex life and marriage. (Quite the prince, no?) J-Lo took him to court and won, and the tell-all went bye-bye.

Sean Combs (P. Diddy)
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J-Lo Claim to Fame: Rapper, Lover and Professional Influence

Sean Combs noticed J-Lo around Hollywood and thought she’d made a great queen in his latest music video. She did. Here’s the long version of the video, but if you click to the end you can see J-Lo and P. Diddy dancing. Very hot.

They soon hit it off and dated for over two years. They had tons in common, including ambition, goals and talent. They were really a great pair, except that Diddy has said he doesn’t want to get married and we all know by now that Jen always wanted a husband and family.

Besides that, things got ugly when Jen and Diddy were in a nightclub in December 1999. There was a gunfight that broke out Diddy’s group and another in the club. Jennifer was charged with gun posession after the fight, and even though the charges were dropped it put a huge strain on the relationship. Jen has also aluded to the fact that Diddy cheated on her. They broke up in early 2000.

Cris Judd
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J-Lo Claim to Fame: Backup Dancer and Second Husband

Jen was hurting after her breakup with Diddy. And Cris Judd was a nice guy and talented dancer who she met on the set of “Love Don’t Cost a Thing.” This was a rebound relationship if ever there was one. They married in a quickie ceremony in September 2001, but was over less than a year later. Jen started dating Ben Affleck and filed for divorce which became official in January, 2003.

Ben Affleck
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J-Lo Claim to Fame: Part of the Disasterous Bennifer

The big pink ring, the big name, the big hoopla. Everything about the relationship between Ben and Jen was big. Too big. He’s since said that he regretted doing the Jenny From the Block video but not doing Gigli. Like most things that start out fast it burned out fast, too. They were engaged, set a date, but then Ben started going to strip clubs and… no more Bennifer.

Marc Anthony
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Ever hear the phrase, “Right person, right time?” This is the case with Jen and Marc. They dated for a brief time in the 90s. Years later, she broke off her engagement to Ben and he was separated for the second time from Dayanara Torres. They started dating and have been happily together ever since. And now, they have a family!

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148 Comments

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  1. Frances Elizarraras

    100% hands down – Chris Judd. He is so good looking and have you seen him move? And he’s so sweet, he really loved her.

  2. Karrie

    oh definitely Ben

  3. Kym

    Definately Marc Anthony

  4. Michelle Moorman

    Ben Affleck!!

  5. Roger Deming

    Ben is the one

  6. Dena Rodgers

    I’m ****ing Ben Affleck.

  7. Samantha Pruitt

    i always liked Ben Affleck

  8. Caron Rodman

    Ben– yummy!

  9. kiyana

    Ben Affleck

  10. Michelle Martinez

    I think Ben was the hottest, but Marc probably has a better personality; which in reality would make him have more sex appeal. Assuming you don’t go by looks alone, like me. I just hope this time Jen’s got the right one! I don’t think she’s going to get any hotter than some of the guys she has already been with!!! :-)

  11. Michelle Martinez

    I forgot to mention…I really need to win this! I am too mean to my husband and need help! Thanks for the contest. JLO RULES!

  12. Zoe Lee

    Ojani for sure :)

  13. Suanne Giddings

    Cris Judd is my favorite, but the timing wasn’t right. Thanks for the chance to win!

  14. Barb Wild

    i would say ben affleck. he looks cute with jen

  15. kathleen Yohanna

    Ben Affleck was the hottest but I guess he wasn’t the guy for her.

  16. P. Adams

    Ben Affleck . thanks for the giveaway!

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  18. Janet

    Ben Affleck

  19. CAROLANN MCLAUGHLIN

    Definately Ben Affleck!!

  20. Lyndsey

    ben but she’s better off with mark

  21. Frances Watson

    Ben Affleck

  22. Jennifer C.

    Ben is the hottest but I like her best with Marc and Ben best with Jennifer Garner.

  23. sharon

    definitely marc antony–she gets to hear him sing every day, LIVE!

  24. Amber Tingle

    for me it’s a tie between cris judd and ben affleck

  25. Jennifer Schroeder

    I have got to go with Ben. I personally think he’s hot! Thank you for the contest!

  26. SHARON FAIRCLOUGH

    Marc Anthony is my chose he seem like he is grounded and they make a great couple

  27. brittany danford

    actually, i don’t think she’s found the perfect man yet. when she ditches marc anthony she can get with justin timberlake and then the world would be at peace cause the two most beautiful people would finally be together and would never need this book cause they are perfect. :o )

  28. Becky Grady

    I like Marc Anthony best.

  29. roseann kies

    Marc and J Lo are made for each other!

  30. Susanne Troop

    Ben!

  31. * * ALiesa * *

    Cris Judd – A nice down-to-earth guy!

  32. Larilyn Garland

    ben affleck was (is) the best. jlo shouldn’t have tried to change him.

  33. ~ HeLeN ~

    Cris Judd

  34. Bari

    Ben!!!!!

  35. ! MiC

    A nice down-to-earth guy – Cris Judd.

  36. Donna Kozar

    Ben

  37. Timothy Sternberg

    Cris Judd!

  38. Miranda Allen

    Cris Judd

  39. Rosanne Morrison

    Ben Affleck

  40. Charlene Kuser

    Cris Judd is just too hot!

  41. sarah woods

    March Anthony is the very best at the top!!!!!! Many Thanks SW

  42. Lily Kwan

    Ben Affleck

  43. Lori Williams

    BEN BEN BEN!

  44. Jennifer G

    ben affleck

  45. Buddy Garrett

    Marc

  46. Sarah Stevenson

    Cris Judd by far

  47. Barbara McNaney

    Ben Affleck of course!!

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