Comments on: Tough Love Couples is Casting!

By: Ciera

Ciera — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 00:40:38 +0000

I can’t wait to see the show. I want to keep my relationship healthy…me and my man are still very happy been dating a year. I think the key is to COMMUNICATE. If there’s a problem be vocal about it. Also, before you throw you’re whole heart into a guy watch for warning signs, they’re usually there. Women you should pick a mate that will do anything in their power to make you happy, as long as you are being reasonable. I think on and off again relationships are a joke, and I think even if your boyfriend sleeps when someone else when you’re on a break it’s still cheating, because he probably knows you two are going to get back together…and it really destroys any trust the two of you have, not to mention breaking up all the time does not result in a secure environment. Bottom line is you can’t be a total doormat (name calling, rudeness, or him blatantly ignoring you–should not be tolerated!) but on the other hand learn to pick your battles, men also don’t respond well to someone who is negative or bitchy all the time.Obviously, no one can be perfect all the time, but I want you ladies to know that there is such a thing as a nice guy! Someone who can be your constant companion–not just when he feels like it! So don’t settle for someone just because you don’t want to be alone!

By: tiffany

tiffany — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 19:26:19 +0000

heyy do you guys know what the requirements are i signed up but im 19 and my boyfriend is 20 ?

By: michelle

michelle — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 06:54:16 +0000

me and my boyfriend should be on this show!we may be young (18), but we both know that our future lies with eachother, we have unoffically been together for five years.he cheated on me, we’ve broken up and slept with other people, we have gotten back together and been happy, then we fell in love with other people?Its been one hell of a ride but he’s always been in my heart no matter what city or town i was in.he would do anything for me and i know his love is real.but there is no trust in our relationship, we have been back together for less than a week and he still keeps in touch we girls that he’s slept with.we are in so much pain but want to move forward with our relationship and build a future.please help us Steve.

By: Kam

Kam — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 22:45:57 +0000

I’d like to know if and when you will be doing a gay mens version of Tuff Luv. Its so hard to find a guality man that is open and willing to commit to one another. We all know how men think and thats the biggest obsticle we need to get over. I find myself to be a good catch. I’m in my early 30’s, smart, have a good job, great friends and am missing a piece. When BrokeBack Mountain came out it was like Ang Lee wrote my story. I never watched a movie that made me SOBB! But really if you do venture in this direction of ManLove I’d like to be a part of it. Mahalo for reading,
Kam in Honolulu Hawaii

By: Amber

Amber — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 07:40:39 +0000

i so wish i could get my on and off again bf on the couples show with me. we are both 18 and really young. But we both love each other but since its a long distance thing we always break up because of so many stupid issues and he never ever wants to talk about our issues and ever solve them and we pretty much go in circles we both think that we pretty much are meant to be because whenever we try to date somebody else it just doesnt feel right. I want things to work out we both think we could make it to marriage but these break ups are killing me and i dont know how much longer i can take because i dont want him out of my life but it will happen eventually.

By: Jenny M

Jenny M — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 20:43:23 +0000

I would love for me and by boyfriend to be on the couple show but we can’t afford to miss work! I know our issues are common but they are still a pain in the butt! We love each other but have issues trusting one another. I have never cheated on a boyfriend but he cheated on his ex with me. I know he loves me and wouldn’t cheat but I still have my doubts when he’s out with the guys drinking! I wish I could let my doubts go! But it’s gonna take a lot to do that & I’m not sure where we start! Oh did I mention he feels the same way even tho I’ve never cheated! Well I hope by watching the show it will help us!!! Good luck to the couples who were chosen I hope everything works out for the best!

By: Jasmine N. S.

Jasmine N. S. — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 19:20:23 +0000

hi steve and JoAnn my name is jasmine and me and my fiance sent in an app. for tough love couples and i was just woundering if you could send an email back so that i know you recivied it!!!!! thanks.

By: Brittney-Elizabeth

Brittney-Elizabeth — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 18:04:09 +0000

Hi Steve and Joann,
I just put in an application for myself and my girlfriend. I see that a previous reader says that you “hate lesbians”. I’m praying that she’s just dealing with some personal issues, and that you’re still willing to give us a chance. We’re mature, honest, and in real need of some relationship assistance. And hey, this could be mutually beneficial, since VH1 viewers seem to be open to homosexuality. So, that’s my pitch. Not sure if anyone reads these other than those who visit the site, but hey- had to give it a shot.

By: Danielle Felitto

Danielle Felitto — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 16:57:38 +0000

Hey Steve I seemed to have left something else out. I wouldn’t be so worried about about the cheating except my boyfriend’s going to school for film. He wants to be a director and now I don’t know if I’ll be able to trust him in his work and I’m not willing to ask him to give up his dream. He’s wanted to be a director since about age 5 and now I’m terrified that with all the time we’ll be spending away from each other and him being around all these actresses who will be trying to get into his movies whatever way they know how that he’ll have plenty opportunities to cheat. please help me reestablish my trust in him; I desperately need the tools to rebuild the foundation of our relationship with trust and truthful communication.

Thanks again,

Danielle Felitto

By: Danielle Felitto

Danielle Felitto — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 00:15:13 +0000

Hey Steve my name’s Danielle Felitto and I am 20 years old. I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years on and off. I have already applied to be on tough love couples but I have new information to add to what I have written on our application. Aside from the fact that he has cheated on me 3 times in a very short amount of time I have also found out that every time I ask him to tell me the truth about a period of time when we were split up it takes a long time for him to come clean with the whole truth. This wouldn’t bother me so much and I wouldn’t even ask him what he did while we were apart if he didn’t make me go into excruciating detail about what I did while we were seperated. I am also afraid that since he does take a while to tell me the whole truth that if he does something that can cause him to contract an STD while we’re apart I won’t know until it’s too late. I just don’t know what to do. I’ve endured alot of things since the very begining of our relationship and he’s begining to realize all that he’s done to me but i’m starting to believe this is a too little too late situation. I would really love to be able to give him a full hearted whatever number chance he’s on now but I need to see big changes in his attitude and behavior and I sincerely believe that you can give us the help we need to get back on the right track. So please please please consider us for your show because unfortunately this is becoming a real last ditch effort. Thank you for your time and consideration. Danielle Felitto