Ben Affleck is starring in the upcoming movie, He’s Just Not That Into You, and since Ben is an old flame of J-Lo’s I thought: Why not do a giveaway?
The book, He’s Just Not That Into You, was written by Liz Tuccillo and Greg Behrendt. Behrendt was a consultant on Sex in the City (the show), and helped write the “He’s Just Not That Into You” episode.
Remember that one? Miranda wonders if a guy she met will call her and Burger (the guy that dumped Carrie with the Sorry, I Can’t, Don’t Hate Me post it) tells her straight out that if he hasn’t called he’s not going to because he’s just not that into her.
The episode was very well received, and never one to miss out on an opportunity, Behrendt wrote He’s Just Not That Into You.
The book was a best seller, and now they’re in the midst of making it a movie. Jen’s ex Ben Affleck is one of its stars, along with Ginnifer Goodwin, Scarlett Johansson, Jennifer Aniston, Drew Barrymore, Jennifer Connelly, Justin Long…. whew…. I’m getting tired of listing these stars!
Needless to say the movie is much anticipated. Here’s a video clip from the trailer:
Looks cute enough.
Anywho, you’re probably wondering about that “win a copy” thing I mentioned in the title of this post. I’ve got a copy of the book, He’s Just Not That Into You, to giveaway to one lucky J-Lo Stalker reader! To enter, leave a comment on this post stating what you think J-Lo’s biggest love mistake has been. Did she not give P. Diddy a second chance? End her marriage to Cris Judd too soon? Did she make a mistake dating Ben Affleck? Should she have gotten married to Ojani Noa?
To help you out, I’ve got info on J-Lo’s former flames here. Take a look and then come on back to this post and leave your comment by Thursday, June 12th. I’ll announce the winner on Friday, June 13th.


I think J-Lo’s biggest love mistake has been not finding Marc Anthony sooner in her life, they are a great couple!
She is just going from relationship to relationship and never taking the time to find out what makes her happy and what she is will to accept in her life the healthy side of relationships.
let Ben Afflect go
To have even gone with Ben Affleck
I think her biggest mistake was thinking she had to marry every guy she hooked up with
I think her biggest mistake was her relationship with Ojani Noa, who she sued (and won) because he broke a confidentiality agreement and was trying to sell private details about JLo. Thanks for the giveaway.
being too eager to marry!!
Hooking up with Ben Affleck (not to mention putting him in her video)!!
Hooking up with Ben Affleck
[...] Just Not That Into You, to giveaway to one lucky J-Lo Stalker reader! To enter, leave a comment on this post stating what you think J-Lo’s biggest love mistake has been Win a Copy of He’s Just Not That [...]
BENNIFER. Need I say more.
Who’s to say there have been any mistakes, right? It’s all led her to this moment.
Ben Affleck, it was doomed from the start
ben affleck
None that I see
Ben Affleck
not choosing a healthy relationship
ben affleck
she’s just too trusting!
The dateline interview with Ben Affleck.
Being too flashy and in public too much. She never kept her personal life personal to now.
so Ben affleck was her mistake.
Ben Affleck was J-Lo’s biggest love mistake. Not only did his mother hate them together, so did the camera (“Gigli”).
Ever dating Ben Affleck
Ben…for sure…
Thank you for having this contest. I really appreciate it.
Biggest mistake, Ben Affleck
When you are too eager to marry you make mistakes.
She marries too much.
too trusting
Too quick to jump in the sack.
I think her biggest mistake was getting married before she found the one she was truly meant to be with.
her biggest mistake was Ojani Noa!
Ben Affleck, it was not a “good fit.”
Affleck
Affleck, for sure
Hooking up with Ben Affleck
I don’t think she’s made any mistakes. Life is ups and downs and it leads us in many different directions which we need to go to end up where we are supposed to be.
bennifer
I don’t feel qualified to say what Jlo biggest love mistake has been. We all choose our own and learn on the way! Hopefully, she has found a man that she truly loves and loves her, also! That is what it’s all about. I would love to be entered in your drawing. I used to watch his show on tv. Greg often made reference to his book. Many thanks, Cindi
Not connecting up with me.
Her biggest mistake was getting married so soon, and so often.
Ben Affleck. They were so poorly suited…conservative with super-flash.
i think her biggest mistake is her giant ego.
Perhaps J-Lo is now mature enough to realize her mistakes and can value this relationship with someone who cares.
Her biggest mistake was marrying Marc Anthony! He is soooo disturbingly ugly!
I like Ben, but I think he was too “waspy” of a choice for her.
Ben Affleck
Hooking up with Ben Affleck
All of them
Working with anyone you are dating is a bad idea. Her biggest mistake was that awful move she made with Affleck.
I think it was hooking up with P. Diddy and being involved in that gun scandal, he seemed like the polar opposite of her.