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Sex, Honestly: Working Out The Kinks
Recently, a friend called me in a panic. She’d been sexting with her boyfriend and he asked for a picture of her peeing. Assuming the call was about how to get a good shot without dropping the phone in the toilet, I began to suggest the shower stall. Turns out she was actually worried about what his request might mean. If he wanted to see her peeing, would he also want her to pee on him? And if he wanted that, did it mean he also wanted her to poop on him? More »
Sex, Honestly: The Etiquette Of The Threesome
Threesomes certainly have their appeal – for all sorts of different reasons. If you’re a single person, it may be something you’ve always wanted to do, and – without the constraints of a relationship – you have more freedom. If you’re in a relationship, it may be something that comes up because you’re comfortable with each other and would like to spice things up a bit. It can be a real turn-on to see someone else enjoying your partner’s body. It can even feed the voyeuristic desires of watching and being watched. But threesomes are in no way a simple business. More »
Sex, Honestly: Nikol Hasler Gets Waxed
It’s hard to believe Crushable’s resident sex columnist Nikol Hasler - also the co-creator, writer and host of Midwest Teen Sex Show – has never been wax-waxed. (Then again, some prefer to keep a full bush.) Without further idea, Nikol’s true story of survival:
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Sex, Honestly: Sweet Dirty Talk
Recently, on my Facebook page I posted the question: “What is the weirdest thing anyone has ever said to you in bed? How about the sexiest?” While I was prepared for a bunch of funny replies, instead I got a mixture of romantic and just plain gross replies. Some examples:
“I think I just pooped.”
“I think we made the rains come.”
“You busted my vagina.”
Really, I was looking for phrases uttered in the heat of a passionate moment, before the orgasm and… More »
Sex, Honestly: What’s Your Favorite Position? Let Us Make It Easier.
While sex itself isn’t such a complicated act, good sex can take some maneuvering, quite literally. A hard penis and a decent command of your vag muscles can only do so much. Ambience, fantasy, attraction, and not being wasted are all important as well. But as wrong as some women’s mags might be about a lot of stuff, they are right when they say that sex positions can play a role in making you have lots of massive orgasms.
Before I… More »
Sex, Honestly: Try Planned Parenthood (But Don’t Book Your Appointment Online)
“Well, hello 21st Century! I see you are now looking after my vaginal health,” I’m thinking as I check out the Planned Parenthood website. After two years of no health insurance, I decided I could no longer wait things out, and used the site’s location finder.
Then I saw something that really got me excited. I could set up my appointment online. It’s not like phones are some huge inconvenience, but I’ve gotten so used to texting and using my… More »
Sex, Honestly: Porn Star Ashley Steel Defends Her Job
The organization Stop Porn Culture! is hosting a conference in Boston this weekend, wherein anti-pornography activists will discuss the future of this controversial, inescapable industry. The group’s stance: Porn is degrading to women and bad for anyone who looks at it. The founders talk about curbing the pornification of our culture, and offer some Q&A’s on what to do if your partner is looking at porn. My favorite deals with “porn addiction,” listing one of the symptoms as, “using it… More »
Sex, Honestly: Chatroulette Is A Sea Of Sexual Frustration, Penises
If you’re a fan of South Park or a regular user of the Internet, you’ve probably already heard of Chatroulette. If you haven’t, let me explain how it works. Upon visiting the website it asks for access to your microphone and webcam, then patches you into a whole web group of other individuals who are using the site. If you want to chat with the person you see, you can contact them. If you lose interest, you can hit the… More »
Sex, Honestly: It’s All In The Fingers
When you break sexual intercourse down to what it is, it’s kind of simple sounding. A penis gets hard, a vagina (hopefully) gets wet, and the part on the boy that sticks out goes into the part on the girl that goes in. Thrust a few times and BAM! You’re having sex. (Or if you’re Emeril you’re having sex and you’ve just made a quiche.)
But there’s more fun to be had in the nether region than just putting something in… More »
Sex, Honestly: How To Make An Online Profile That Doesn’t Suck
He’s tall and he’s wearing an ascot. He drives a vintage car. He has the body of a Greek god and a movie star face. This man is about to charm the pants off of me. Yes, my pants will be coming off and I won’t even mind if he gives me lame excuses after we do it about why he can’t stay the night. We have nothing in common and I am willing to bet this man is the… More »
Sex, Honestly: Communication Is The Wonderdrug
“So, I really appreciate that you let me call you.”
I can hear the dorm room around him, picture the dude in the background who has just shown up in the door of this guy’s room to What’s Up with him.
This kid in particular — and I hope nobody minds being called a kid by me, I’m old and I’ve earned it–recently set up a Skype session in his dorm so I could answer questions after they all watched some episodes… More »
Sex, Honestly: Come On, Get Kinky
He’s twentysomething and he’s been stressed lately because he’s studying for the Bar exam. He’s stuck at home looking at notecards that are supposed to help him cram every moment of law school back into his brain. It’s not like he’s a paraplegic whose house just burned down with a puppy inside, but I do feel some sympathy for the guy.
He was prepared to rely on the net’s anonymity when we started to talk. He needed to jack off so… More »
Sex, Honestly: Beware The Naked Pictures (Trust Me)
First things first, you guys. I need to tell you right off the bat that I am not an idiot. Honestly, I may be a scatterbrain and I still have to look at my hands to tell my right from left, but I consider myself a fairly intelligent woman. But sometimes smart people do stupid shit.
Yes, I let him take naked pictures of me. No, he’s not the first one to do so. And, yes, I know that I tell… More »
Crushable Questionnaire: Nikol Hasler
1. What’s your backstory?
Wow. That’s not easy to answer. Condensed I can say that I had a really crappy, painful childhood full of abusive and irresponsible adults. I have this one piece of paper — it’s a list that I wrote when I was six years old- it says “Places To Go.” I remember writing it in a moment of real sadness when all I could think about to keep me going was that I’d get out of there one… More »
Sex, Honestly: How To Give A Blow Job
Whether you are a veteran at oral or a newbie, you probably already know that those porn scenes featuring women who seem multi-orgasmic as they give a blow jay for 20 minutes might be exaggerating the enjoyment factor just a smidge. Still, the blow job doesn’t have to be a one-sided neck cramping act for the giver.
First thing to keep in mind anytime you do anything sexual: If you don’t enjoy the thought of pleasing the other person, you shouldn’t… More »
