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Jessica seems to have already dealt with John’s remarks to Playboy. Should she do anything else at this point?

For one thing, if a guy ever talks about you in public that is immediate grounds for dismissal. That tells you that there are more than two people in this relationship: you, him and the rest of the world. Every time I hear him talking about her, I get furious. I don’t want to see any woman deal with that. It means he’s just thinking, ‘I’m John Mayer, I’m so sexy I can just tell anybody I want all about my conquests.’ I think she should have dealt with it just in the way that she did, by saying, ‘I don’t forgive him,’ and that’s the end of it.

Jessica and John have had an on and off relationship for a number of years. What should she do to finally, once and for all get over him?

I would tell her to make a list of the things that he’s done to hurt you and insult you and keep looking at that list and make sure you remember all the things he put you through. Put a weighted number on each thing he did, rank it 1 though 10. Then count up all these numbers and see how heavily these items weigh on you. If they weigh heavily, you know you’re being brought down. You need to understand that when a guy brags about how great he was in the sack with you, that’s only because he is insecure. Do you want to be with someone who is insecure and immature like that?

Why do women go back to men like John even if they are hurt by them?

They go back because they used to know that person and it’s a matter of feeling comfortable. A lot of people do things out of comfort.

What should Jessica look for in a guy moving forward?

She should be with someone who honors her and respects her and doesn’t bring her down.

It seems to us that Jessica might have a hard time trusting the next guy she dates, especially if it’s someone else in the public eye. Do you have any advice for her?

Trust is a very hard thing to build. I suggest to everybody: do not rush into any relationship. You have to build that relationship over time. You have to decide where you want the relationship to go, and how much you want to share of yourself, and that takes time.

Unfortunately, whatever Jess decides to do with her relationships in the future, it will be a very public ordeal. Should she handle it any differently because of that?

Yes. It’s different because she’s not just Jessie Q. Public. She’s somebody who some bloggers will want to use for their own benefit. She should be on guard. I always use the saying, ‘Trust in God, but tie up your camels.’ That means that you should trust to a point, but keep looking over your shoulder to see what’s going on.

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Tracy Morgan
There’s no telling what he’ll do or say at any one time, making him totally entertaining.

Oprah
It took Oprah a while to get on the Twitter bandwagon, but we think she’d have fun on ChatRoulette.

Matthew McConaughey
We love bongos.

Paula Abdul
Crazy works well on ChatRoulette.

Conan O’Brien
He doesn’t have anything better to do.

Tina Fey
She’s probably tried it already.

Robert Pattinson
Face to face human interaction makes Robert nauseous, but he might be more willing to open up over the Internet. And we’re okay with if it he wants to get naked.

Kanye West
We bet he would type IN ALL CAPS

Taylor Swift
Kanye would probably hit “next” if he saw her — we wouldn’t.

Lady Gaga
We’re dying to know what she looks like when she’s just lying around her house at night, chatting online.

Who would you like to see? Who have you already seen?

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Back at the beginning of this century, Jessica was a sweet, virginal pop star with bleached blond hair, a phenomenal voice and a killer rack. In 2002, she married sweetheart and fellow pop star Nick Lachey and put Chicken of the Sea on the map with their reality show Newlyweds. But three years later the two split, and five years after that Jess’s name has become synonymous with being dumb, up and down weight gain and now, thanks to John Mayer, being very, very good in bed.

John and Jessica have had an on and off relationship since they started dating in 2006. John may have claimed that Jessica was his drug, but after their break-up after a year of dating, she sure seemed to be hooked on him. She kept going back to him, and each and every time it would end up in the press. John is not a discrete guy.

Back in May 2007 when news of their split first broke, a source told People, “They have broken up. But they have broken up and gotten back together at least 10 times before.” A few months later, Gawker caught Jess leaving John’s NYC apartment. There were also rumors that Jessica was stalking John, and in 2008 he wrote a message on his blog to an “Ex Lover” who many thought was her. “Perhaps you didn’t understand the last time I told you to stop contacting me, so I’ll do my best to spell it out for you,” he wrote. “I do not wish to have you in my life anymore.”

But apparently that humiliation wasn’t enough for Jessica to just write off this jerk. Last year, her relationship with Tony Romo endedthe night before her big birthday party, reportedly because he found texts from John on her phone. What followed was, of course, more rumors about a reunion with John. Ew.

Hopefully, Jessica has finally learned her lesson and she is cutting all ties with loose-lipped John. Maybe Oprah will make her promise to stay away.

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John Mayer spent the weekend partying and acting, well, less-than-gentlemanly. “He was drinking and saying vulgar things to the girls at the bar,” says a spy. Meanwhile, his ex, Jessica Simpson, struggled to hold back tears as she hit back at Mayer on an Oprah episode due to air this week. (Gatecrasher, Daily Mail)

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According to EntertainmentWise (and Star):

Chat show host Oprah Winfrey has vowed never to have Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie on her show as couple to her friend Jennifer Aniston.

Oprah who is a good friend of Aniston’s (despite the whole ‘A Million Little Pieces’ affair) has promised not to help publicise Brangelina.

According to Star magazine Oprah believes that Aniston has handled the break in a “tasteful” manner while Brad has just been a big show off.

A friend told the mag: “Oprah sees herself as on of Jen’s best public advocates – the captain of Team Aniston.”

And although having Brangelina on her show would pull in huge ratings the friend admitted: “I don’t think she wants anything to do with them anymore.”

Whatcha think?  Magazines desperate to sell papers?

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